this is going to be why people are forced to run their own email

@feld Running my own email server is probably why I couldn't receive the emails. I run my own server and it's stricter than most of the big companies' servers. Also, because I run my own server I was able to see the errors in the logs telling me why the emails weren't coming in, and change my config to grant exceptions to fix it.

yeah but you have the control to fix it anyway. But I get your point. At Big Email they'd probably just send it to spam