Concerning to see #MastoAdmin comments from instances with many tens of thousands of users admitting they still don't know a lot of very basic concepts around how the software works.
If you're going to let your instance become "too big to fail" (which you shouldn't) at the very least you owe it to the larger network to please get up to speed on all of the aspects of administering & moderating the software.
We are here and in matrix.to/#/#mastodon_admin:ma… for support.
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