in reply to aaron

This whole ordeal has really exposed a deep a lack of empathy and callousness under a veneer of 'civility'. It's shocking (though it probably shouldn't be).

Aside from the fact I support simply biting back at the commenter on a personal level, you it made clear at the start that this is a culmination of a lifetime of exclusion and discrimination. This factor seems to be completely and utterly invisible to everyone telling you to ignore it, or that it's childish, or frivolous.

There isn't really a constructive dialogue to be had with people like the original commenter because they don't respect the fundamental issues of accessibility, disability justice, or even just usability. In fact they actively position themselves against them. But I still think there is value in your post. I don't yet have the skills to make a real difference, but the post made me want to do something about the absolute injustice that pervades more than ever.