SO I saw a facebook notification, and decided let's read it, I don't really go on facebook that often, but it was @countrymetalhead commenting on a post he shared, and welp just because I want to see if the reaction here on masto's different, here's the original post, now, be aware, I'm not the original author, so keep that in mind. I'm just posting it to see what others think, and what reactions I get. Now, if your still reading, your content preramble is over. here we go. hot take starts.... welp, now. Hot take:
If you think a relationship means constant texting, daily reassurance, sharing locations, checking followers, and knowing where your partner is every second of the day… you’re not in love. You’re running surveillance.
Some of y’all don’t want a partner.
You want a security blanket with a phone.
A healthy relationship doesn’t require good morning paragraphs, hourly check-ins, and “prove you love me” speeches. It requires trust, independence, and a life outside of your partner.
If your mood is ruined because your partner didn’t text back fast enough, that’s not passion. That’s insecurity.
If you need access to their phone to feel safe, that’s not loyalty. That’s control.
If you think jealousy is cute, that’s not love. That’s immaturity.
Some of you are addicted to attention and call it affection.
And before you say “my partner likes it,” just know: people accept a lot when they’re afraid of being alone.
Love isn’t about possession.
It’s about partnership.
Now let’s see who feels personally attacked.

aaron
in reply to Munchkinbear • • •Andre Louis
in reply to Munchkinbear • • •