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Recently one of my friends posted an introduction post to the official Ubuntu forums.
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(original link: discourse.ubuntu.com/t/lukas-h… )
Seems fine except for maybe a bit of bad grammar around the "I am also a furry" part right? Well turns out behind the scenes the post was edited to not say "I am queer" before mentioning being a furry, and they got in a lotta trouble with the mods. This led to them no longer feeling welcome on the Ubuntu discourse forums.
The reason given was that the word Queer is a sexual word, which is just patently untrue. Saying you're queer gives less info into your sex life than mentioning your wife/husband, and if that was banned it'd be fucking stupid. Of course by the responses of the mods, it is made clear that that's not the real reason, and instead they're making the decision because of politics.
In the next few posts I'll talk about these extremely problematic moderator responses.
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Uphidate 1:
bark.lgbt/@gimmechocolate/1151…
Also fixed the wayback link for the update. Damn I gotta get better at using that site lmao.
Edit 1: made it more clear why I see canonical as having taken a far right stance on the issue, on top of the obvious argument that the stance of their moderators represents the stance of the company/project.
Update 2: things get better, or do they?
bark.lgbt/@gimmechocolate/1151…
Final (?) update and conclusion:
bark.lgbt/@gimmechocolate/1151…
bark.lgbt/@gimmechocolate/1151…
Another relevant (not great looking) conversation with an Ubuntu leader that never got it's own update: masto.pt/@DiogoConstantino/115…
Lukas here, Hello to all!
Greetings My name is Lukas, I am from Germany, now 26 years old. ( Birthday: 24.10.1998 ) My first contact with Linux was with Ubuntu 6.04. I was 8 back then and used it until I was 12 or 13. switching to Kubuntu.Ubuntu Community Hub
Update: this was posted on reddit and was locked by a moderator of the subreddit who also claims to be a member of the community council, for unspecified inaccuracies. I would love to know what parts of the post I got wrong so I could fix them but as of writing this it doesn't seem like they've reached out to me about it.They also claim that the post wasn't edited because of self-identifying as queer at all, as the three different reasons from the first three different people all stated, but instead was for a secret fourth reason to be revealed shortly.
I am looking forward to hearing their full statement and hope they have been having lotsa productive discussions about how to best make the ubuntu community an inclusive and welcoming space for it's queer members!!!!
I will do my best to keep this post updated with more information, make sure to boost the top post so you get notified when I do!!!!
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Ubuntu mod team takes anti-queer "Don't say gay
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in reply to unawarewolf 🐺 • • •how is that appropriate to even post on a bio in the first place? Are you trying to connect with kinksters or contribute to an open source project?
> Saying you're queer gives less info into your sex life than mentioning your wife/husband
It definitely signals that you're not heterosexual. And the mention of being a furry now means we all have to imagine this person dressing up in an animal costume for sexual gratification.
> Birthday: 24.10.1998
Do GenZ think this is appropriate for some reason? Are they putting their sexual preferences on their CVs/resumés too? I don't get it.
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in reply to Furbland's Very Cool Mastodon™ • • •I'm not attacking anything, and Fedi is for socializing so that would indeed be an appropriate place to share that information.
It's hilarious that people keep pushing the "gays/furries invented Fedi" lie. It's like saying "email is gay" because Eric Allman wrote Sendmail
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To quote Wikipedia, with sources:
"Queer is an umbrella term for people who are non-heterosexual or non-cisgender.[1][2] Originally meaning 'strange' or 'peculiar', queer came to be used pejoratively against LGBTQ people in the late 19th century. From the late 1980s, queer activists began to reclaim the word as a neutral or positive self-description.[3][4][5]"
The article in question. This has nothing to do with kink.
Also the GenZ comment is so out of left field, what does someone's fucking birthday have to do with this beyond, at best, growing up in a possibly more accepting of identity social climate.
Please reconsider your entire post.
The ‘Q’ in LGBTQ: Queer/Questioning
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ah yes because being trans (or in general, not cis) makes you want to look for kinksters all the time
whats next ray blanchard was right all along?
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@feld yeah the thumbs up totally just hides all the insecurity, good job, 10/10.
Jesus what is with guys in tech being pathetic never back down contrarian losers.
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@feld "such a discussion" "can you not admit"
Really dancing so deftly around outright saying you consider home-sexuality to be aberrant or out of the norm, bravo.
instead of the truth which is that it is an apolitical, natural part of life and has been for thousands of years that we know of and likely much longer.
feld
in reply to Amy • • •> it is an apolitical, natural part of life and has been for thousands of years that we know of and likely much longer.
I vehemently agree! But it is a massive overcorrection to demand that it be considered socially acceptable to discuss this topic in all social forums at all times.
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@feld I find you genuinely *pathetically* misguided at best or an abject, sad loser at worst.
You appear to be a grown man in your picture but your rhetoric is that of a child.
Are you so ignorant that this concept is difficult for you? Have you seen so little of the world that homosexuality is controversial?
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in reply to Amy • • •I've had two gay coworkers come out (OUTSIDE OF WORK) to me because I was the only one they were comfortable with and I was the first they introduced me to their partners. Still lifelong friends with these people, in their weddings, etc etc.
You're making silly assumptions knowing nothing about me. Chill out.
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@feld okay I guess I was correct on "pathetically misguided" then. Do you wanna go find your gay coworkers and list all the situations they should never mention they're gay in?
Lemme know how that goes I'm sure it'll be a treat.
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The worst of the posts is as follows:
"Sorry to intervene, another volunteer moderator here. Point 7 of the general posting guidelines says:
'Politics: This topic has caused serious problems in the past and as such is subject to tight control. Discussion of the politics of open source it permissible in the lounge. No other political posting is permitted in any form in any other area of the forum. (this includes the use of avatars, flags, and other potentially-divisive graphics.) Please find another venue for political discussions'
So in my opinion, if your intention was to show political support for diversity, you should avoid using this flag. This will allow us to refuse the use of a flag for instance saying 'non-queer', If we allow your flag, then we have to admit also other similar political flags, both supporting and opposing diversity.
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This reply is just fucking dishonest. First off, if you allow people to post the lgbt flag you don't have to also allow people to post Nazi flags or whatever. Like, being queer isn't an ideology. It should be totally fine to say you're queer or straight or whatever, that doesn't mean you also have to let people be Nazis or say hateful things about each other, like wtf? You can literally just say that some flags aren't allowed and some are. (also idk what's with all this talk about flags, they weren't even the thing that got edited). It is totally reasonable to say that everyone should be allowed to express their identity, whether straight or queer, white or black, man or woman, etc; this doesn’t fucking somehow magically create a loophole for people to start hating on other identities.
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unawarewolf 🐺
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Second, the whole idea of things being apolitical is just a vague excuse to discriminate. A few years ago Florida passed a law nicknamed "Don't say gay" which banned teachers from mentioning their sexuality or gender identity to students at all; so if banning queer people from mentioning their identity in your forums is apolitical, then why the fuck is it a more extreme political position than that taken by a far-right politician who literally posted Nazi propaganda on twitter? This fucker is just trying to hide his political extremist views behind a guise of fairness.
This response sure makes it seem like the values of Canonical and Ubuntu are closer to far-right extremism than all the positivity and inclusivity they claim in their policies.
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The next response isn't quite as bad because at least it's fucking honest.
"OK - here goes one other way to look at this as an issue.
Say for the sake of argument I am Christian, As a Christian I follow a set of ethics defined in what we call the Bible, Now in this set of ethics is God's declaration that 'queer' is an abomination. As it is abhorrent then it too is something to avoid, And YES discussion of relition too is not permitted - it is in the same vein as a pronouncement of queer"
Naturally you might think that saying you're queer might equate to saying you're Christian, or saying you're Jewish, which should both be fine; but apparently they equate it to saying you're Christian, and also that you think queer people (other members of the community) are abominations.
If you look past the fact that they talk like Ben Shapiro and ChatGPT had a baby that didn't know how capitalization worked, there is at least a little bit of sense here though. Saying you're queer and saying you're bigoted are the same in that they will both piss people off. If they actually cared about a fair, friendly, and welcoming community, they'd notice that they are also very different in that one is a statement of identity, and the other is a statement of hate towards other members of the community. Another difference is that bigots want queers to not be able to say they're queer, and queers want to not have to hide their identity, so banning both in this silly hypothetical is still giving the bigots what they want and siding against queers. All in all, I can give the benefit of the doubt here and assume they're simply too much of a coward to fight back against bigots in and out of the mod team, so instead they are taking the path of least resistance and telling everyone to be quiet so they don't have to deal with it, while ignoring the inequity of that.
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unawarewolf 🐺
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All in all Canonical and Ubuntu, through their inaction, and by electing a mod team that made this decision with seemingly no dissent, have taken the far right position that people shouldn’t even be allowed to mention their queerness, which gives the extremists what they want, and them not being able to be explicit about their hate (and the mods here are already very implicitly bigoted), is a small loss when they already get their way by forcing us queers into the closet in any of their spaces. On top of that, even though it’s been a couple days so far, the leadership hasn’t done anything and saying queer is seemingly still banned on their forums.
This is absolutely unacceptable, and I recommend anyone who is queer, has queer friends, or just generally cares about people being allowed to live their lives, to not use Ubuntu, spread the word, and not contribute to their community; until they put solid policy in place to make it clear that everyone is welcome and allowed to be themselves in their community.
Collection of evidence:
nextcloud.aztinet.eus/s/sxqEDJ…
This folder includes the screenshots quoted, along with a lot of other screenshots and information not covered by my post.
Original post by the one discriminated against:
bark.lgbt/@lukas/1151642584973…
Other post:
blahaj.zone/notes/aca8zuhiducu…
And remember, the more people boost this, the more likely Canonical is to feel pressured to change their policies and take action to help queer people feel included in their community. Queer Ubuntu users deserve to be able to openly be a part of the community and be treated with the same respect as anyone else.
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Update: this was posted on reddit and was locked by a moderator of the subreddit who also claims to be a member of the community council, for unspecified inaccuracies. I would love to know what parts of the post I got wrong so I could fix them but as of writing this it doesn't seem like they've reached out to me about it.
They also claim that the post wasn't edited because of self-identifying as queer at all, as the three different reasons from the first three different people all stated, but instead was for a secret fourth reason to be revealed shortly.
I am looking forward to hearing their full statement and hope they have been having lotsa productive discussions about how to best make the ubuntu community an inclusive and welcoming space for it's queer members!!!!
I will do my best to keep this post updated with more information, make sure to boost the top post so you get notified when I do!!!!
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Ubuntu mod team takes anti-queer "Don't say gay
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Update 2: Unofficial response from queer ubuntu member, diversity statement, post is reverted, but...
The first response is a queer Ubuntu member saying that it was a mistake and shouldn't've happened. As I've argued in my previous posts, I think that the moderator responses are acting on their underlying values as opposed to it being a simple mistake. If those values conflict with the values of Ubuntu, then that is a problem that is a bit more difficult to solve than with a talking to.
If I were in the position of the moderators I'd be either reflecting on my values; or stepping down, and maybe looking to moderate a space that more closely aligns with my values such as Hyprland. As a moderator myself I've been on the verge of stepping down for much much less.
Overall though I do think they are taking the right attitude.
fosstodon.org/@AKernelPanic/11…
Another response has told me that apparently there is a diversity policy. I was gonna make a whole stink about how it's hard to find, and how it's arguably a suggestion as opposed to the actual CoC (which it's not included in). Then I actually read it and it includes "Political beliefs" as a protected class. This means that the positions of the moderators are actually totally in line with the diversity policy. Putting queer people and people who want queer people gone into the same category IS a component of far-right ideology, as I covered in post 2. Not having discrimination based on political beliefs necessitates having discrimination based on other protected classes.
masto.pt/@DiogoConstantino/115…
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Lastly the post got reverted. This is largely symbolic, as I doubt lukas will actually want to participate in the community after all that. I woulda been a lot happier about writing this down if I didn't just read their diversity statement that implies the moderators' actions were, in fact, in line with the values of of Canonical and Ubuntu.
Diversity Policy | Ubuntu
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Final update (hopefully): The council makes a statement, changes the moderation guidelines.
First I'll cover the code of conduct changes, which I suggest you give a read yourself:
web.archive.org/web/2025090815…
All in all this a very good change. I don't think I could've written better rules myself. I've said that I don't think marginalized groups and bigots can coexist when treated as two equal sides. I do, however, think that we can coexist in a world where they work along side us, as long as they are told to shut the fuck up when they start being harmful, divisive, and/or assholes. Studies show that this dynamic when we all interact, just as normal people, without someone being yelled at for being themselves, is the best way to make a more tolerant world. I feel that these rules perfectly accomplish that.
Of course that all assumes they are enforced fairly, and by people who aren't biased against the vales those rules represent, which brings me to the response itself:
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If you give the benefit of the doubt, it casts a new light on why the initial action was taken: due to generational gap, the mod saw it as a sexualized slur. Unfortunately that was a very small part of the criticisms; and the fact that two other mods chimed in, with responses that I've argued were both clearly not a mistake, and extremely ideologically charged; means that this response wasn't as perfect as the rule changes.
I don't think that necessarily makes it bad mind you, but it does mean that the team will have it's work cut out for them making sure the people enforcing their rules aren't biased against said rules. Lets all remember what happened with Hyprland after the drama: they added rules about discrimination, but the leader of the project still agreed that it's ok to ban people for having pronouns in username.
Even a really good set of rules are still no better than the people enforcing them.
On Discourse rules about politics
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True conclusion: All in all I think at this point, I think the community finally has good rules in place to protect marginalized people, but I also think it's important to test the waters still.
Just because the rules are there, doesn't mean that they will be enforced fairly. I do still have my doubts that the mods I called out in posts 2-4, will be able to enforce the rules fairly, and keep their personal biases out of their decisions as moderators of the community, especially since they managed to turn what could've been a simple misunderstanding, into a massive political shitshow. If I were them, I'd be resigning right now, and if I were their peers, I'd be super pissed off, and kindly suggesting they resign right now.
(to be clear this is only the two who responded, and that I called out, specifically NOT wild_man who initially did the action. I think it'd be good to take the council's word that at least this was a genuine misunderstanding. I do genuinely believe them here myself.)
Now that this seems to be wrapping up, lets all remember that the actions we take should focus on making the world a better place. I think everyone involved can still be a productive member of the community, even if they shouldn't be the ones enforcing the rules. I also think it should be important to treat each other with kindness by default, it's rare that unkindness makes the world better.
I hope the community council continues down this path, and makes sure the rules are actually enforced as intended. I also recognize that while a few days is an eternity in internet time, it's just a short moment in bureaucracy time, so I appreciate the council coming together on such short notice to make an overall good decision. If they don't, I will do my best to add one last update.
I thank everyone for their time, and remember: everyone should have freedom, and the right to be themselves. I hope you all have a great day!!!