I do not owe anyone my #disability positivity. I am not a walking advocacy campaign, but a human being living the rollercoaster that is #disabled life, that is life itself.

I will have good days and bad, most will be mixed, all will come with challenges. I cannot demand the standards of myself that the wider non-disabled world asks of me, but I can be more gracious in my assessment of my abilities.

I will complain without solutions, celebrate with enthusiasm tinged with frustration, choose the parts of myself I share sometimes with care and sometimes without.

You will deal with it, or not; it makes very little difference, other than when it makes all the difference.