Why you ask?
Well, I had to take stock of my work situation: Would it get better if I had yet another talk with my supervisor, subjecting myself to her tirades then her agreeing to listen to me only to go back to the same old pattern a few days later?
Should I talk to my boss's supervisor again, not feeling any sense of trust that she'd help me and ensure my boss stop the negative behavior?
Should I go above my boss's supervisor to the vice provost, who is aware of my boss's eratic moods and negative behavior?
Should I just suck it up and just keep my head down and do my job and enjoy the students, the main part of my job?
After doing a lot of soul searching, hang wringing and feeling totally ill I ended up going to our human resources director, expressing my concerns and outlining everything that has been going on almost since I started this job just short of 3 years ago.
I finally realized that no matter what was done things would not get better given the way the department works and the personality of my boss and the admin in the office.
So I made the difficult decision to resign. I gave 2 weeks notice which is the minimum I could give, sticking to the policy.
It was a very hard decision because I really love my actual job. But I can't handle my boss any more.
So I'll have to adjust to this new reality and figure things out. I'll continue looking for a new job but who knows about that. In the meantime I'll have to restructure life so I don't become a total slug. That won't be good for me.
So there you have it!



Mike Gorse
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