Mal wieder hat ein alter Mann eine "Beziehung" mit einer jungen weiblichen Person geführt, die danach traumatisiert ist und er hat daraus ein Jahrzehnt später keinerlei Konsequenzen erlebt, im Gegensatz zu ihr. Sie 15, er 63, aber natürlich keiner Schuld bewusst
Sie 15, er 63: Der Münchner Liedermacher Konstantin Wecker soll eine Beziehung zu einer Minderjährigen eingegangen sein. Unter den Folgen leidet die mittlerweile 30-Jährige bis heute, der Künstler bittet um Verzeihung.
Johanna (nicht der echte Name der Betroffenen) hat sich dazu entschieden, ihr Schweigen medial zu brechen und beschreibt ne Dynamik, bei der ich mir echt denke "wie? Schon wieder so was?"
"Als schon alles vorbei war, nannte sie selbst es ihm gegenüber eine „unkonventionelle Liebe, die keiner verstehen konnte und kann“. Die Liebe zwischen einer Schülerin und einem fast 50 Jahre älteren Mann."
Mal wieder sieht sich die 40 Jahre ältere und deutlich privilegierte Person nicht in der Verantwortung. Denn man war ja häufig alkoholisiert
"Weckers Rechtsanwalt teilt mit, es sei eine Phase gewesen, in der sein Mandant „sehr viel und über längere Phasen Alkohol konsumiert“ habe. Auch wenn all dies keine Entschuldigung sei, „möchte er zum Ausdruck bringen, dass er damals nicht Herr seiner Sinne gewesen ist“."
Angezeigt hat sie Konstantin Wecker am Ende nicht; es sei eine rechtliche Grauzone, habe ihr Anwalt gesagt, der Ausgang unklar. Weckers Anwalt schreibt, er möchte „für Herrn Wecker mitteilen, dass er davon ausgeht, damals keinerlei strafbare Handlungen im Umgang mit der betroffenen Frau begangen zu haben“."
In Beziehungen mit (großen) Machtgefälle kann Verhalten missbräuchlich sein, ohne dass es strafrechtlich relevant verurteilt oder angezeigt werden würde. Das macht es für Betroffene nicht weniger traumatisierend
Konstantin Wecker, "Beziehung" zu Jugendlicher, explizite Beschreibung
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"Manchmal habe er sie am Telefon aufgefordert, mit ihm zu masturbieren. Sie habe es nicht gewollt, sagt Johanna heute, aber aus Sorge, er könnte das Interesse verlieren, will sie so getan haben, als hätte sie mitgemacht."
Auch emotional ausgeübter Druck kann zu sexuellen Grenzüberschreitungen führen und ist dann nur eine weitere Form sexualisierter Gewalt - auch wenn der 63-jährige als verantwortliche Person der Meinung ist, das nicht gecheckt zu haben
Konstantin Wecker, "Beziehung" zu Jugendlicher, explizite Beschreibung
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Im Endeffekt bricht Johanna ihr Schweigen und das ist verdammt stark: „Ich will als erwachsene Person für die 15-jährige Johanna einstehen, weil es damals niemand getan hat“ Das erfordert für Betroffene so viel Mut und Kraft. So viele Betroffene leiden leise. Dabei gilt auch hier: Die Scham muss die Seiten wechseln
@NVAccess @jcsteh I appreciate your insights here. I am planning to open an issue on GitHub, but I first want to make sure it actually needs a separate issue. Currently, when NVDA encounters bold or italic text in HTML, it displays that word or phrase on its own line in the virtual buffer. Just like with links, NVDA then places the following non-styled text directly after it on the same line. This means that when navigating with Up and Down arrows, you may encounter several new lines in the middle of a paragraph, each starting with one or more bold or italic words, followed by normal text. Besides making navigation more difficult, this behavior is not very useful. For example, in online dictionaries where one or more words in an example sentence are bold or italic, the virtual buffer does not show how many words at the start of the line actually have that formatting. To see this issue, which is very easy to reproduce, go to the Merriam-Webster dictionary website and check the definition of “workaholic.” Here is the direct link: merriam-webster.com/dictionary… In the Examples section, the first example displays “My brother is a real” on one line, and on the next line it shows “workaholic who almost never takes time off.” The problem is even worse in the Recent Examples section. There, in addition to an italicized word inside the example, the name of the publication is also bold or italic, and NVDA breaks the paragraph even further and places each styled element on its own line. At the very least, there should be a setting that toggles this behavior, so users can choose between the current mode and an alternative mode where bold, italic, and underline formatting does not break the virtual buffer into separate lines. Also, when pressing Insert+F on text that is bold or italic, NVDA reports formatting details only at the end. For example: “Open Sans 14.5 pt very dark pale aqua-blue on white bold italic align left.” It would be better if NVDA announced bold, italic, or underline at the beginning instead of the end, similar to how JAWS does it. For example: “bold italic align left Open Sans 14.5 pt very dark pale aqua-blue on white.” I want to open an issue requesting NVDA to stop separating bold and italic text from surrounding words, or at least provide a toggle for it, and to improve how formatting information is announced in general. There should be more efficient ways to convey this information without altering the structure of the virtual buffer.
I assume this separation only happens with screen layout off? Can you reproduce the format splitting with screen layout on? That makes a very big difference here. If it's only with screen layout off, my guess is just that the determination of what should cause a split is a bit broad. It's not just links, but on the flip side, it's not all inline elements either. But nor do we want to have some massive list (and corresponding debate) about which specific thousand elements should split and which shouldn't, so there needs to be a simple rule (e.g. only interactive elements should split). That said, all of this is supposition, since I personally have no interest in screen layout off and thus I don't work on that area of the code.
You are right. This does not happen when Screen Layout is set to On. I normally keep it Off because I do not like links being placed inside non-link text. But it appears that with Screen Layout set to Off, NVDA applies the same behavior whenever it encounters emphasized text such as bold, italic, or underline. So it is not unpredictable in terms of element types or properties. I really wish there were a setting to disable this behavior, because it makes manual navigation painfully difficult on many pages.
You may get some pushback though. By definition, turning screen layout off means you're asking NVDA not to respect visual layout and to instead break lines. Where lines are broken, then, is debatable. You personally just want this for links and I tend to agree that formatting and links are very different, but it could equally be argued that the same rule should be applied to other inline elements because they are still different from the surrounding text. VoiceOver breaks on every. single. element. for example. This is why I personally dislike non-screen layout in general, even for links, but I respect that there are different preferences and styles of navigation.
Thanks for your insights. All valid points. I'll open an issue for it to see how it goes. Perhaps I'm used to the JAWS approach which only separates links and doesn't treat emphasized text that way. @NVAccess
And oh boy all terms seem so foreign to me as a long time #Linux user. The same disk is called ada0 with a partition like ada0p2 in #FreeBSD, will be called something like sd0 with sd0h in #OpenBSD, ld0 and dk2 in #NetBSD . Then to experiment, all the #dkctl, #disklabel and #fdisk commands are like blue and red wires on a dynamite you have to get rid of 😱. Linux distros nowadays seem to be going to the #gdisk way which feels very much like #gpart in FreeBSD. #UseBSD #RUNBSD #BSD #FOSS #UNIX #Linux
If I might weigh in here with some personal experience as an indie artist. I’ll refer to my streaming stats for March 2025 which totalled a bit over four dollars in streaming earnings.
If you are paying a Soundcloud subscription, a portion of that will go directly towards the specific artists you’re streaming.
I haven’t mentioned Bandcamp as I think of it as a music shop rather than a subscription streaming service, but straight up purchasing music there is a really great way to support your chosen artists.
The annoyance of cookie banners doesn't come from the regulations, but from the malicious compliance of the corporations who want to exploit your personal data.
No data-harvesting cookies = No banner. Simple.
My websites have no cookie banners, because they don't use any non-essential cookies and don't track visitors.
""" We value your privacy so much that it only takes four clicks on drab-looking buttons and tiny checkboxes to opt out of our invasive data slurping...*or* you can click the single big green "I consent to being slurped by you and your 9k partners" and we can just move on with our day like pals. So whaddya say, pal? """
@vick21 this is going to be one of those weird laws in 50 years that nobody understands. “ In the us federal system everyone has a right to privacy… uncles your name is Jeffery Epstein. Then all your courts records become public after 30 days. “
The easiest way to install chatmail server is a small project written by a single person, meanwhile the #deltachat official server installation process is cluster of unintelligible documentation and a docker image that need multiple commands to setup properly.
How does that one dev build a better hosting experience than a company?
I don't think the official approach is harder if you have the required Debian server, and besides, one is using maddy that is a single binary and the later is a more solid battle-tested standard postfix+dovecot email server
Secure by default should have minimal configuration, exactly so that you can’t mess it up, with optional configuration flags that are hidden in the documentation reference.
@arcanechat Containers have solved this problem of compatibility, if you want more self hosters to run your stuff you make a simple docker compose example.
that single dev was actually supported by mainline #chatmail relay developers along the way, and besides, the Go-efforts (there are two) are not production ready yet.
Are there any plans to make chatmail and friends configurations more distro-agnostic or at least documented in the future, because I'm in the middle of packaging it for RHEL (and possibly Fedora) and so far it has been an interesting experience to even get the build dependencies packaged and I have not even arrived at digging the configurations out of cmdeploy yet.
It's true that the repository for now targets Debian12 but the deployment client (where cmdeploy is installed) should not be distro-dependent. There recently landed a new documentation side btw chatmail.at/doc/relay/
Alright so I got a USB hub that can pass through power as a replacement for my Thunderbolt dock as I suspect the Dock's USB hub was failing and surprise surprise I can't use the HDMI ports on it, not picked up by my laptop.
Oh also the laptop's own HDMI isn't working. Monitor seems to detect something for a split second and then signal lost
alright the new USB hub runs "usbconfig" instantly, but with the old Thunderbolt3 dock it would hang for 2 seconds sometimes. It must have been failing. That explains why I'd have issues with devices refusing to communicate through it properly sometimes without a power cycle of my laptop, even.
could that have also been a reason why I had some weird MacOS issues? That same USB hub in the dock was misbehaving and it was screwing with my Mac?
does it ever count as a real job if you get hired and you sit at a desk for months and months and you never do any work at all because the siloed teams are too busy fighting about what access you're supposed to have and what the scope of your job is?
I had that once. Was the easiest $100k salary I ever made. I never did any work at all.
Kyiv Post - Death toll continues to rise after Russia launched 524 drones and missiles, killing at least 25 people in Ternopil and injuring dozens as Ukrainian rescuers attempt to free residents trapped under rubble. kyivpost.com/post/64508
This is a repository of apps to be used with your F-Droid client. Applications in this repository are official binaries built by the original application developers, taken from their resp. repositories (mostly Github, GitLab, Codeberg).
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Johanna (nicht der echte Name der Betroffenen) hat sich dazu entschieden, ihr Schweigen medial zu brechen und beschreibt ne Dynamik, bei der ich mir echt denke "wie? Schon wieder so was?"
"Als schon alles vorbei war, nannte sie selbst es ihm gegenüber eine „unkonventionelle Liebe, die keiner verstehen konnte und kann“. Die Liebe zwischen einer Schülerin und einem fast 50 Jahre älteren Mann."
Das klingt in solchen Dynamiken immer so ähnlich
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Mal wieder sieht sich die 40 Jahre ältere und deutlich privilegierte Person nicht in der Verantwortung. Denn man war ja häufig alkoholisiert
"Weckers Rechtsanwalt teilt mit, es sei eine Phase gewesen, in der sein Mandant „sehr viel und über längere Phasen Alkohol konsumiert“ habe. Auch wenn all dies keine Entschuldigung sei, „möchte er zum Ausdruck bringen, dass er damals nicht Herr seiner Sinne gewesen ist“."
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Angezeigt hat sie Konstantin Wecker am Ende nicht; es sei eine rechtliche Grauzone, habe ihr Anwalt gesagt, der Ausgang unklar. Weckers Anwalt schreibt, er möchte „für Herrn Wecker mitteilen, dass er davon ausgeht, damals keinerlei strafbare Handlungen im Umgang mit der betroffenen Frau begangen zu haben“."
In Beziehungen mit (großen) Machtgefälle kann Verhalten missbräuchlich sein, ohne dass es strafrechtlich relevant verurteilt oder angezeigt werden würde. Das macht es für Betroffene nicht weniger traumatisierend
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"Manchmal habe er sie am Telefon aufgefordert, mit ihm zu masturbieren. Sie habe es nicht gewollt, sagt Johanna heute, aber aus Sorge, er könnte das Interesse verlieren, will sie so getan haben, als hätte sie mitgemacht."
Auch emotional ausgeübter Druck kann zu sexuellen Grenzüberschreitungen führen und ist dann nur eine weitere Form sexualisierter Gewalt - auch wenn der 63-jährige als verantwortliche Person der Meinung ist, das nicht gecheckt zu haben
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„Ich will als erwachsene Person für die 15-jährige Johanna einstehen, weil es damals niemand getan hat“
Das erfordert für Betroffene so viel Mut und Kraft. So viele Betroffene leiden leise. Dabei gilt auch hier: Die Scham muss die Seiten wechseln