1:08:15 oh. If commenting on other people's habits is odd, then dude's just explained part of why people have reacted so weirdly to me over the years.
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in reply to Mx Verda • • •Ok, cat owner having a breakdown has their key in transit to them by post. They could have had it today at their leisure but they "don't want me near them", which is great because I am not up to driving anyway.
Phew! May this live rent-free in their head for a few months and only ever again in therapy sessions.
Moral of the story: Make the best choice you can in a given situation, plan to be able to make better choices in future, and do not take responsibility for other people's interpretation of your choices.
Gambatte, basically
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in reply to Mx Verda • • •I'm grateful for this experience giving me insight into how I can affect others and how I did affect other people when I acted like that.
I'm grateful I can avoid acting like that now.
I'm grateful I wrote down exactly what happened as it happened in the Cat in a Flat booking chat.
I'm grateful I didn't compromise my needs more than I felt was fair.
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in reply to Mx Verda • • •When someone treats you badly and refuses to change their behaviour, it is not 'bad' or 'failure' to block them.
If you feel reasonably sure they may continue to act carelessly toward other people, it is not 'bad' or 'failure' to report their messages.
You exist too. You're allowed to curate your environment to be more tolerable to you.
You are not their parent (probably) nor carer (probably), and NO ONE is getting paid enough to be mistreated.